we went through my girl’s things, which was wrong. She was telling this lady pal that I was negative looking but that I happened to be the sweetest man she is came across and she loves myself. How do I need to just take this?
-John G. (Illinois)
Hello John G.,
Thanks for the concern. I suppose I’m interested to learn the reason why you went through her situations. Was it receive straight back at the girl for saying you are not attractive or was it in an attempt to find proof of how she really seems individually? Either way, you are in not the right. You say that she really likes you and I’m assuming you adore her right back? In that case, exactly why is it possible you betray the woman confidence and experience her situations? Which is an immature reaction to some thing she (more than likely) informed her pals in confidence.
The adult contact site solution to manage this situation is to confront your own gf and state something like, “I’ve heard from some people that you are making the rounds and telling all of them that you don’t find me personally beautiful. That really hurts my personal emotions and helps make me personally concern why you want to be with me.” You had been at first the target in this case but rapidly switched your self inside chump by going through her circumstances. The both of you have to have a critical, sit-down dialogue and atmosphere your own dirty laundry if you want any possibility at an effective connection.